This influence is nothing mystical — it’s simply the age-old truth: you become who you surround yourself with.
Think about certain friends, partners, or family members. When two people share nothing but negative energy (负面的能量), the longer they stay together, the more conflict and tension erupts between them — and both lives sink further into chaos.
Are they bad people? No. Are you a bad person? Also no.
The two of you simply don’t belong together. And if that’s the case, distance is the right answer.
So make a point to draw close to the people who genuinely nurture you — especially those who know how to feel gratitude, who treasure the connections they have, who carry kindness in their hearts, and who hold to honest values.
You don’t need many. If your everyday life includes just three or four people like this, it won’t take long before things naturally start falling into place. ☀️