Even without you telling me, I already know — you’ve been having a rough time lately.
And it’s not just work. Every corner of your life seems to be pressing down on you with invisible weight.
I also know this: for a while now, in the middle of the night, you’ve felt that sudden heaviness in your chest — heart pounding, chest tight. Then you lie there in the dark, submerged in endless anxiety and dread.
I know. I see all of it.
But there’s not much to be done about it — this is simply the era we’re living in. Everyone has to stay strong, carry the weight, and heal all at the same time.
So tonight, let’s skip the deep stuff. I just want to share something a little warmer with you.
1 — These days, don’t ever think you’re the one having it worst.
I have many friends worth hundreds of millions — even billions — and what they’ve lost and suffered through this stretch far exceeds what you’re carrying right now. So please, don’t wallow too deeply in self-pity. Remember: every family has its own difficult story. Most people simply won’t air their troubles in public.
Who today isn’t gritting their teeth and facing life head-on?
2 — On one hand, get yourself into a thriving state.
When you have free time, don’t shut yourself away at home scrolling through negative news on your phone. Honestly, consuming too much content filled with conflict, anger, and resentment is genuinely inauspicious — deeply bad for your fortune.
Staying cooped up in a closed space for too long causes your Chi (vital energy) to stagnate and wither, and things start going sideways in that slow, cumulative way.
Make a point of going to upscale, lively shopping malls — the kind buzzing with energy and people — or the grand lobbies of luxury hotels. Even if you don’t spend a single yuan, just walking through does you good.
3 — On the other hand, find your way into a still rhythm.
Look around you: whether it’s the immortals in ancient mystical texts or the wild creatures of great mountains, all living beings have their seasons of rest and restoration.
Beyond making regular visits to energizing places, use your remaining time wisely — don’t let anxiety throw your life into disorder.
Eat at regular hours, and eat well.
Sleep at a consistent time, and sleep enough.
Slowly, you’ll rediscover that the essence of life is simply living — and your energy, spirit, and vitality will gradually come back.
4 — Keep your distance from people whose energy doesn’t match yours, especially those with a dim and draining Chi field (气场).
I’m very particular about this myself. When I encounter someone whose background is unclear and whose aura reads as neither upright nor vibrant, I keep a respectful distance without hesitation.
There’s no way around it: people are the greatest Feng Shui of all.
Some people, if you don’t practice letting go of them, will drag you right into their misfortunes the moment trouble finds them.
Over the next couple of years, take the time to sift through, optimize, and clean up your social circle.
5 — These next two years, follow four words in everything: taste, then stop.
I’ll be direct: do not make any drastic moves in the next two years. Whatever goals you’re pursuing, take small, unhurried steps — no rushing, no recklessness — and you won’t go wrong.
Remember this: when the main arteries are blocked, opportunity hides in the small capillaries.
I wonder if that line will really land for you.
6 — Regularly clear out the negative energy inside you. Don’t be afraid of the awkwardness.
Why do adults become increasingly suppressed? Because when something happens, we tend to bottle up all that negative energy inside ourselves.
I always encourage the brothers and sisters around me: if something is weighing on your heart, say it. Whether it’s a trusted loved one or even a comment section like mine — you need to release your feelings in some healthy way. You cannot keep it all inside.
Otherwise, over time, that negative energy transforms from something invisible into something very real — from heavy emotions into actual illness.
And in the end, the person becomes exhausted, bitter, and perpetually unlucky.
7 — These next two years, learn to show a little vulnerability. Quiet, understated people attract real wealth.
I don’t want to see you doing anything that comes across as showing off — and please, stop casually boasting about your successes and progress.
You never know how much resentment and envy is hiding behind the compliments people give you. More importantly, bragging openly can invite others to harbor ill intentions toward you.
Put yourself on silent mode. Be like light that doesn’t blind — like deep water that flows without a sound.
8 — Never underestimate that quiet but very real force available to you.
If you hit a wall and feel completely helpless, don’t just freeze there, stuck. Every situation has a way through it — the ship always finds its way to port.
In a turbulent year, isn’t it exactly the right time to finally gain clarity on the path of your own life?