In this world, it is almost always those whose careers and wealth are in shambles who place the greatest importance on romance and relationships.
Look at the men and women who agonize all day over petty love affairs — very few of them have careers that are going anywhere.
After all, once a person’s career is solid and their wealth flows freely, even if their romantic fortune (桃花运) is at its worst, they can quickly turn the page and find a new path forward. Their capability and drive are strong enough that solving relationship problems simply won’t be that hard.
So stay well clear of those who are pure love-brains. These people not only lack what it takes to be a long-term partner — even as friends, they will most likely do nothing but drain your energy and waste your time.
To put it even more plainly: if a person is strong enough to push their career forward, then with just a few words of guidance, their ability to seize the right romantic opportunity will be just as strong.