In real life, there are plenty of men with money who have it but won’t let you spend it. Then there are men who aren’t as wealthy, but they don’t want your family’s money either — and they’re willing to spend what they earn on you.
Being well-matched in social standing is of course ideal. But if you’ve met many men like that and simply don’t click with any of them, it’s perfectly fine to choose someone who isn’t as well-off — as long as he’s ambitious, capable in what he does, and above all, a man of good character.