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Grasp the Big, Release the Small
I once introduced a concept: “For an ordinary person, merely brushing against the threshold of a C-4 level in this lifetime will feel like …
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Navigating love, marriage, and human connections with clarity and grace — Master Chi’s teachings on attraction, partnership, and social intelligence.
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Time: Your Scarcest and Most Precious Resource
【Student Question】 Hello, Master. My state of mind has been unstable lately. I feel caught in an emotional whirlpool, unable to break free. I’ve …
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The Hidden Secret to Romance Fortune: Start at the Gym
Being a Sunday, I’m not in the mood for anything too heavy — so let’s talk about a slightly edgy, somewhat taboo little topic. I wonder …
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On Unmarried Childbearing: When Wealth Changes the Equation
Student Question Hello, Master Chi. There’s a beautiful female PhD in someone’s circle. She has modest career success, comes from a good …
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Three Warnings Hidden in the Headlines
The hottest topic of the past couple of days is, of course, the gossip surrounding Zhang the Gambler and Miss Jing. The story blew up so completely …
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To You, on Your Day
Hey, dear one — today is your day. I know that what we share is, for the most part, a pure friendship. But friendship is its own kind of deep feeling, …
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Work Hard, Live Well: A Few Small Truths About the Good Life
The greatest tragedy in life is toiling your entire existence only to find you never enjoyed a single moment of it. Don’t wait until your final …
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How to Practice Strategic Deflection at Work
At work, we often encounter good fortune in our daily professional and personal lives. For example, your manager, in high spirits at a dinner …
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Is Marriage Truly That Important?
First, a reader’s letter: Dear Master Chi, I am a young person who has been following you for two years. I’m reaching out because …
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The Woman I Truly Admire — And What That Drama Taught Us About Marriage
By now, most of you are probably tired of hearing about that couple’s public meltdown. I won’t bother picking sides — frankly, I still …