I’ve consumed a lot of content from so-called relationship coaches and marriage consultants. It all boils down to one word: nonsense. Just like people who teach others to build businesses while they themselves are nothing more than ordinary office workers — many who give relationship advice are themselves unhappily married, or completely alone.
Remember: the more important something is in this world, the more it calls for returning to simplicity. The greatest truths are always the simplest.
This is especially true of what makes a good marriage. Its entire essence comes down to what I’ve summarized here.
You want to choose someone to spend your life with?
Then make sure they are the highest choice your overall circumstances allow you to reach.
Once you’ve made up your mind and begun a life together — don’t second-guess yourself, don’t stir up trouble, don’t take back your move.
And stop spending your days complaining and regretting. Unless your partner has made a fundamental mistake, the two of you should work as one — with your minds set on building a flourishing life together.