Relationships
Accepting 'Favoritism' in the Workplace
Many people who seek consultations tell me that their direct supervisor plays favorites. Leaders are human too — and humans come with subjective …
Love & Relationships
314 articlesWealth Wisdom
The Greatest Fortune Is a Lifetime of Laughter
Last weekend, I had dinner with a group of brothers from Jiangsu, along the banks of the Huangpu River. This has been a time-honored ritual among our …
Feng Shui & BaZi
On Truly Clever Women
★ — Three years ago, a young woman named Xiao Y came to me on a friend’s recommendation, seeking an analysis of her life pattern and guidance …
Wealth Wisdom
How Can Women Expand Their Social Circle?
Student Question: How can I expand my social circle and increase my chances of meeting men? Hello Master, I’m a divorced single mother who works …
Feng Shui & BaZi
Stop Overthinking. Just Take the Next Step.
You and I alike should be willing to admit it openly: we are ordinary people, nothing more. In this world, we are not particularly important. Without …
Wealth Wisdom
#Should You Wash the Dishes the First Time You Visit His Family?#
Every time I see a question like this, I feel a deep sense of exasperation. Because almost without fail, the answers that follow are a crowd of people …
Relationships
Dear Girl — A Message I Need You to Hear
Today belongs to the sisterhood. I had planned to put together some pretty images with a few warm, sentimental lines — something easy and fitting for …
Feng Shui & BaZi
Every Image, Made by Hand — Let These Carry You Through the Year
Since I began sharing profile pictures and background images back in February, I’ve lost count of how many readers have written back to say: …
Personal Growth
The Romance Struggles of High-Achieving Women in Big Cities
In communities dedicated to the dating woes of accomplished women in major cities, there is no shortage of what I call the “polished …
Wealth Wisdom
It Only Takes Two Steps to Lock Someone at the Bottom
It only takes two steps to lock a person at the bottom of society. Use fragmentation to erode macro-logical thinking ability. Use shame to erode …