I’ve always felt that many women today carry a deep misconception about those three words: “love yourself.”
In my view, loving yourself as a woman isn’t simply spending money on flashy, impractical things — pretty clothes, luxury fragrances, expensive designer goods. That kind of buy-buy-buy self-love is, at its core, the result of being brainwashed by brands. It’s the mentality of someone who gets taken advantage of without even realizing it.
Yes — two nights ago, I gave a young woman a verbal wake-up call.
To be clear, this wasn’t verbal abuse. It was a firm, heartfelt dressing-down delivered after completing a full analysis of her life pattern (格局). There was no other way. For a woman who had played a winning hand into the ground, gentle words would have been useless.
Words have to hit hard to ring the alarm inside. I trust you already know this.
Student Question
Hello, Master. My husband and I have been together for eight years. Just a few days ago, I confirmed that he has been unfaithful — there were even photos of the two of them together. Since the very day I first began to suspect him, the thought of divorce has crossed my mind countless times. I am now 24 weeks pregnant, and we already have a three-year-old child. Friends are urging me to tell my parents. Honestly, I don’t know what to do.
There’s a saying you may have heard: Never touch the interests of those above you, and never touch the beliefs of those below. It wasn’t my words originally, but I believe it completely.
That’s why I never argue with anyone in the comments section. Not once.
My job is to say what I have to say, clearly and fully — so that the brothers and sisters with true understanding can grasp it. That’s enough. That’s my responsibility fulfilled.
I once introduced a concept: “For an ordinary person, merely brushing against the threshold of a C-4 level in this lifetime will feel like gaining a third eye — a moment of profound revelation.”
I stand by that statement without reservation.
Because only by truly living alongside a C-4 level person — working with them up close, breathing the same air — will you finally understand: damn, the reason others outperform you by such a staggering margin, and do so with such effortless ease, comes down to just four words: grasp the big, release the small.
【Student Question】 Hello, Master. My state of mind has been unstable lately. I feel caught in an emotional whirlpool, unable to break free. I’ve been thinking about questions like: how do I spend the rest of my life? What is the scarcest thing I possess? I’m wondering how I can escape this whirlpool. I hope Master can offer some guidance.
【Master Chi’s Response】 In situations like this, the best thing you can do is step back and reflect — to genuinely examine your own life. This is, in fact, a good way to escape the whirlpool.
Being a Sunday, I’m not in the mood for anything too heavy — so let’s talk about a slightly edgy, somewhat taboo little topic.
I wonder how many people around you — yourself included — have a regular fitness habit.
If you happen to move in circles where fitness is a serious part of the culture, you’ve probably noticed something striking: not only do people in those circles tend to carry themselves with remarkable energy and vitality, but they also rarely struggle to attract the opposite sex.
I like to get straight to the point. This article is written specifically for women who started with nothing — women poised to rise against the odds.
The more ordinary your birth, the more impoverished your family of origin, the more this article can do for you.
Those of you who have followed me for a while know the depth of my work in destiny reading (命理), so when I say this, I have my reasons.
Student Question
Hello, Master Chi. I’ve partnered with others to run a group-buying platform. External competition is fierce, and we have no significant edge in product selection, pricing, or operations. I also feel that what we’re doing doesn’t offer much real value — it’s essentially profiting from information asymmetry, plus we run a three-tier distribution system. Operating costs are high on top of that.
I’m wondering whether, in the long run, I should abandon the current platform and instead build a personal brand — selling products from other platforms myself. I feel my judgment and sales ability are decent enough to make that work.
Student Question
Hello, Master Chi. There’s a beautiful female PhD in someone’s circle. She has modest career success, comes from a good family, and achieved basic financial independence in her thirties. She knows it’s hard to find a partner who meets all her standards — and she has no interest in legally registering a marriage with a man and sharing her wealth. After all, for wealthy people, marriage is the most expensive thing. It’s an investment, and if it goes wrong, it shrinks your assets.