The holiday is almost here. I was already thinking about taking a break when something jolted me awake: there are still a few important things I haven’t reminded my brothers and sisters about!
I have to tell you — because if you handle these few small things properly, every single one of them can help your fortune run smoothly for an entire year.
So I sat down and carefully wrote out these suggestions:
【Student Question】
Master Chi, hello. I’d like to ask you about something that has troubled me for a long time.
Why is it that sometimes we clearly know a certain action will do us more harm than good — yet we keep doing it anyway?
A few examples:
Say I have no appetite in the morning. I eat snacks for breakfast instead, and now my stomach is upset. I’ve been through this before, and I know the long-term consequence is physical discomfort — so why do I still choose it?
Yesterday, the comments section received a very interesting message: “Hello Master Chi, I’ve been your reader for many years. I’m writing today with a somewhat bold request.
A few days ago, I recommended your articles to my younger cousin in a small town. She read them and was immediately blown away — and scolded me for not introducing you to her sooner.
But since she came to your articles late and missed a great deal of content, I was wondering if you might find some time to distill and recap your core insights? I’m sure many other readers feel the same way, and I want to thank you in advance.”
By now, most of you are probably tired of hearing about that couple’s public meltdown.
I won’t bother picking sides — frankly, I still can’t figure out what one party was even trying to accomplish. Days of frantic thrashing around, yet nothing coherent to show for it. Not worth the energy.
But there was one woman in this whole spectacle who earned my deepest respect: Zhang Lan.
Consider this — Zhang Lan is 64 years old. Yet watching her, where do you see even a trace of the frailty we associate with age? Whether it’s the videos she puts out or the sheer intensity of her workload, you can feel it clearly: she is the pillar holding up her son and the entire business. She is the lone warrior standing in the storm.
If you are a woman past her prime years — still ordinary, still soft, still struggling — then today’s article is critically important for you.
Read it to the end with patience, and your destiny may transform beyond recognition.
This article is, from beginning to end, a direct guide for one ordinary young white-collar woman: showing her how to become self-reliant, how to unlock her wealth fortune and romantic destiny, and how to straighten the course of her life.
Tonight’s article matters — I hope you’ll read it all the way through.
I want to start by sharing a message a long-time reader left me. It’s brief, but every line carries weight. More importantly, the question he raises may well be the very question you’ve been wanting to ask:
Student Question:
Master Chi, I’ve been a reader of yours for many years. The reason I’m writing tonight is that my spirits have been especially low lately — on one hand, I’m worried about the future; on the other, I feel lost about where my life is heading. Both feelings are tangled together, and I’ve barely been able to sleep for over a month now.
Let me state this upfront: today’s article is critically important for female readers — especially for those who are tired of their own mediocrity but have no idea how to change their situation.
So if you truly care about your own life, please give yourself the next twenty minutes to read this article carefully and absorb it completely.
By the end, you’ll discover that there are real reasons behind your struggles — because every hardship and every blessing in your life is the result of choices you have made.
Today I want to tell you about a woman I deeply admire — a genuine textbook case of female reinvention and ascent.
The reason I call her a textbook is this: she embodies something extraordinarily rare in women today — the combination of wearing her ambition and sharp instincts openly on her face, while keeping her execution and follow-through firmly planted under her feet. That kind of hard-nosed pragmatism is almost impossible to find.
Reading the comments on yesterday’s article, I noticed everyone seems fascinated by the “comeback couple” I mentioned. That’s understandable — stories of people defying the odds never get old, and we all want to learn the moves and inner principles behind someone else’s success.
So today, let’s focus on this particular couple — or really, on the qualities shared by every couple that manages to build a truly thriving family.
I realized long ago that enlightening women is far harder than enlightening men.
Not because women are naturally less intelligent — many of my closest friends are exceptionally brilliant women who don’t just match men but often surpass them in a dozen ways.
So why do so many women still fall behind?
The answer lies in the long process of growing up. The worldview they absorb from their social circles and families is saturated with “weak-mindset thinking.”