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Dao, Reason, Brotherhood, Benefit — Unstoppable: How the Children of the Jianghu Rise to the Top

·11 mins
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Master Chi
Renowned Chinese wisdom teacher sharing timeless insights on wealth, destiny, Feng Shui, BaZi, and the art of living well.

There is a strange idea circulating today — popular among white-collar workers and grassroots circles alike: networking, socializing, building connections — none of it is worth thinking about. If you’re good enough, people will naturally come to you. So all you need to do is focus on your craft, sharpen it to the sharpest, the absolute sharpest, the most razor-sharp it can be! Heh.

Under this kind of thinking, more and more young people have become social components who “only know how to tighten bolts, but have no idea how to steer the ship.” Among them, the lucky ones become high-end components — with longer career spans and more grueling workloads. The unlucky ones grind through 996 schedules until their early forties, and when they finally can’t keep going, they become easily replaceable.

Honestly, Master Chi has nothing but contempt for this kind of thinking. It is self-imprisonment — and worse, it’s infectious. Yet this view has spread far and wide. The vast majority of people in this world — at least nine and a half out of ten — spend their entire lives diligently tending their little patch of land, knowing nothing of the world beyond it. No resources. No connections. No useful circles. No real paths forward.

You should know that the thinking of the weak and the grass-eaters isn’t worth dwelling on. It’s cliché, and it will only soften your resolve, leaving you chasing nothing but weak, stagnant security.

But you can’t argue with these people, either — because in their worldview, there is only one pattern life can follow:

Born → School → Graduate → Company → Promotion → Promotion → Promotion → Retire

They have genuinely given what they have. But because of who they are, their thinking is purely linear — textbook, by the numbers — the classic mindset of a social component. Not the material of anyone who deserves to hold the helm.

What caused this pattern to form? Simple: most of them grew up in honest, sheltered households where the elders were content to live on their salaries. And so, from childhood to adulthood, they never knew that on this very land they have lived on their entire lives, there exists a world called the Jianghu (江湖) — the realm of those who operate beyond the ordinary.

The Jianghu is made up of high-end restaurants ordinary people can’t afford, nightclubs where regular folk would never set foot, and teahouses that common people would pass right by. More than that, it is made up of bosses, leaders, well-connected operators, those who hold capital and resources — people who do not depend on a monthly paycheck to survive.

The Jianghu does not welcome the rule-followers and the cognitively rigid — the ordinary salaried workers and the petty white-collar crowd. The two don’t mix. Just as a forest full of abundant fruit does not welcome timid herbivores — it is the world of the sharp and the savvy.

The timid herbivores? They have their place — the vast open plains, the endless grasslands you can see the edges of from a distance, covered in nutritionally empty grass. That is the world suited for them.

But the talented, the capable — male or female — should not be confined to that. They should not spend their lives clinging to a meager job with a pitiful return and no security.

So where is the way out? The way out is the Jianghu.

Life shouldn’t only be this. At least your life shouldn’t be only this.

As you can see in today’s title — Dao, Reason, Brotherhood, Benefit — Unstoppable: How the Children of the Jianghu Rise to the Top — the four core ideas are already laid out right there in the opening four characters: 道 (Dao/the Way), 理 (Li/Reason), 义 (Yi/Brotherhood), 利 (Li/Benefit).

Each of these four words takes only a few hundred characters to explain — but to truly embody them requires the right foundation. And here is the strange thing about these four words: even though they are not mainstream thinking, you — yes, you — must treat them as your personal code and live by them, moment to moment.

Just as a person creates their own destiny, your destiny is also constantly choosing you. When you become someone who understands Dao, embodies Yi, grasps Benefit, and carries Chi — the door called the Jianghu will slowly open to you and let you in. After all, a sharp person thrives wherever they go.


First, let’s talk about “Dao” — the most dry and boring, yet the most important.

Have you noticed something interesting about this world? The weaker and lower someone is, the less they tend to reason with others — and the more they lead with emotion. That’s why we always see the unreasonable shrews and deadbeats at the bottom.

But in the Jianghu, Dao — the underlying logic and rules of things — is paramount.

These two simple characters contain two layers of meaning. “Dao” refers to the rules of survival in whatever world you inhabit — whether you operate in the legitimate world or the grey zones, every path has its basic Dao-rules.

These rules have constraints that ordinary people find hard to understand, but insiders grasp them completely. Because some game rules exist precisely to keep everyone safe — and that’s why you cannot break them. And some rules exist because following them is the only way everyone benefits — and that’s why you absolutely cannot break them either.

These two simple points — and yet countless people never understand them in a lifetime. The result? They deserve to be pushed to the margins, excluded, and ignored.

Now, someone might object: “If I have a professional skill, why can’t I get ahead?”

Sure — but why should others hand you the good spots and opportunities just because you have a little ability? Have you thought about them? Why should they think of you? Just because you read a few inspirational posts online, you think the whole world owes you something? Who do you think you are?

Only the most foolish, naive, and ignorant people will choose to break the Dao-rules of a circle simply because something seems unfair. These people naturally become everyone’s target — and then, with a bewildered and clueless expression, they get driven out without even knowing why.


As for “Li” — Reason — it’s even more important.

What is “Li”? It is “a justification that holds water and is self-evidently fair.”

People who don’t move often in the outside world — or those who reach their thirties or forties before they ever have to deal with the wider world for the first time — tend to overlook the existence of “Li” entirely. They think the world runs purely on empathy. They’ve decided something is right, and therefore everyone else should agree.

These people are the dim-witted colleagues, bizarre friends, and insufferable relatives in your life. Whatever they bring to you, they lead with assumption — zero thought given to whether they’ve offered you any reason to accept or comply.

That’s just the nature of those who have never been beaten down by society.

So what does a true master do?

“Here’s the situation — the background, the cause and effect — so I need to achieve this goal. But brother, I won’t forget you. Your share — what you deserve and what’s fair — is this portion, whether it’s a short-term gain or a long-term benefit.”

See that? They’ve already thought through the key concerns you would have. There’s something in it for you, no pressure, and the reasoning is sound. How could you possibly refuse?

That is the power of “Li” — not “a reason people can’t refuse,” but “a good reason that’s simply hard to refuse.”


Third: “Yi” — brotherhood, loyalty.

This word is genuinely rare in today’s society. Or rather — it’s not that it’s rare. It’s just that those at the lower levels don’t much believe in it.

Yet it remains common in the powerful circles of the Jianghu — because Yi represents an alliance of strength. And everyone in those circles has their own unique strengths and their own natural weaknesses. So complementing each other, naturally coalescing into an unspoken but deeply understood circle — that is entirely natural.

In many cases, Yi doesn’t need to be confirmed. It’s a quality — the willingness to hand your back to a trusted brother or sister without hesitation.

That’s why you’ll notice: in lower-tier circles, no matter how many “friends” people claim to have or how well they say they get along — the three great occasions of life, wedding, full-month celebration, funeral — they have to invite people. One look tells you: no one sees them as someone worth keeping close.

But in the powerful circles? Do they need to invite anyone? If you’re solid, if you carry Jianghu Yi, people are already lining up to pledge loyalty and show their regard — not out of selfish calculation, but because that is precisely how much they value and respect you.

Warmth in this world is hard to find. Jianghu loyalty is alive and well.

How could such a thing ever be familiar to the lower tiers? What they know is: don’t burden others, don’t help people for no reason, don’t let others owe you too much, and always collect your debts with interest. Every inch of the wage-earner’s worldview reeks of small-minded calculation and narrow-heartedness. The result? Life’s road gets narrower and narrower, until you’re standing on the tip of a needle — no relationships worth trusting, no network worth a penny.

Think honestly about those colleagues and underachieving friends of yours. Which one isn’t operating in a shrinking circle, with “shrewd calculation” written all over their face?

This rodent-like disposition — how could it ever be your life’s code?


Finally: “Li” — Benefit.

“All under heaven rush for profit; all under heaven bustle for profit.”

A brilliant line — and yet, somehow, for many people it has become cold evidence of how heartless the world is.

A person’s perspective determines their standing. When someone looks at the world with cold disdain, believing themselves to be the only innocent lotus in a swamp — stay far away from that person. They are inevitably both useless and bitter.

Look — one of the most beautiful things in this world is this character “Li,” benefit. Because for capable people, anything that can be settled with “Li” is the easiest thing of all. And indeed, once you’ve walked the Jianghu long enough, you realize that the things that can’t be resolved with “Li” are the truly thorny ones.

Many people who’ve come to Master Chi for a destiny reading (格局 analysis) have asked: where do you find “Li”?

Actually, it’s simple. Li hides in your career palace, your wealth palace, your friendship palace, your travel palace — in every area of your destiny chart. But the easiest shortcut is found in the opposite of “Li”: the character 施 (shī) — giving, bestowing.

Why?

As someone who has witnessed the rise of countless Jianghu figures, Master Chi can tell you with confidence: single-minded pursuit of “Li” only makes people keep you at a respectful distance. But those who understand and know how to use 施 — giving — will find that more and more people and opportunities come knocking with “Li” in hand.

Of course. If you can give like that, it means you have a bigger pie. And since you won’t be too greedy about it, everyone gets a share of the meat.

In the eyes of petty white-collar workers and small-minded folk, giving is a catastrophic thing — a devastating loss, a heartache, something they hide behind a straight face while secretly hoping others will repay double.

Tell me — would you work alongside someone like that?

The five words “I want to take advantage” written clear across their face — that kind of person is simply not destined to touch real wealth and opportunity.

Why are Jianghu figures historically so generous with money? Money is for spending. Give me a second use for it.


In Closing:

The four passages above are brief. Many people will read them and shrug.

But since they shrug — let’s watch what they do with it.

Those who cannot act on this — and they truly cannot — that is the fate of those who spend a lifetime devoted to the petty citizen mentality and the small-farmer mindset. They delight in the small advantages they grab through greed, never knowing that this worldview means greater opportunities will never choose them.

They congratulate themselves for staying out of trouble and never getting drawn into anything risky — never knowing that this behavior makes others look down on them and drift away.

They believe that their tantrums and hysteria are practical life wisdom — never knowing that this conduct ruins their reputation completely.

Honestly, “small destiny framework, not worth mentioning” — this is exactly that type of person.

And yet — does having a small destiny framework mean there’s no hope?

Of course not. Because the destiny framework is only your vessel. What matters is understanding its nature, and then navigating the currents of fate as skillfully as possible within it.

Here’s the interesting thing: many Jianghu figures don’t have particularly grand destiny frameworks either. But they have remained loyal to these four words — Dao, Reason, Yi, Benefit — and that loyalty has given them the fortune to be woven into larger tapestries they could never have created on their own. In doing so, they have accumulated considerable wealth, and a level of reputation and resources most people will never touch.

They did it. So can you.