Some women — you only need to hear them speak two sentences to know they’ve already lost the game of life.
How can you tell?
Because just those few words completely betray their level and depth of understanding.
This is something I feel with particular clarity from personal experience.
As you know, Master Chi’s reputation in Chinese metaphysics means I regularly encounter women from all walks of life who seek destiny readings from me.
Yet despite all being women, the moment they open their mouths, you immediately sense the vast gulf between them.
Some women well into their thirties still open with questions like: “Does he love me?” “My boss is so annoying.” “My friend is so calculating.”
While others, barely in their early twenties, immediately ask: “How should I structure my career?” “How do I build and accumulate assets?” “How do I go about finding the kind of marriage I’m aiming for?”
The questions they concern themselves with alone will determine the staggering divergence in their future fortunes and quality of life.
So today, I’m not going to hand you answers the way I usually do — that would be far too easy.
Instead, I’m throwing the heavy-hitting questions that shape your life directly at you. Think through them yourself, find your own answers, then share your thoughts in the comments.
Strictly speaking, this will be an article we write together.
1 — Is your current career truly worth your blood, sweat, and tears?
Can it generate enough wealth for you?
Does it offer better resources, connections, and future prospects?
Even if you choose to coast, can it provide a solid, stable middle-class life?
2 — Have you actually developed the habit of continuously upgrading yourself?
Do you routinely review your life progress every quarter and seriously think about where you can improve?
Have you deliberately set time aside to build yourself a reading list — and committed to finishing it?
Or have you set mastering a particular skill as a non-negotiable goal?
3 — What is the actual quality of your social circle?
Can your so-called close friends actually pull you up when you need a hand?
Do they have any real social resources to speak of?
Or are they, like you, just salaried white-collar workers going nowhere?
Have you thought about which friends you should have long since distanced yourself from — and which ones are true allies worth keeping close?
4 — Are you actively and intentionally cultivating your network?
The senior women you occasionally cross paths with — do you show them genuine respect?
Have you proactively offered to help them in whatever way you can?
Have you seriously reflected on where the gap lies between them and you?
5 — Have you seriously invested in finding the right partner?
Have you thought honestly about what caliber of partner you’re actually suited for?
What can someone genuinely gain from being with you?
Have you made a real effort to get yourself into the right social circles?
6 — Have you made concrete plans for building your future assets?
Have you thought about where your wealth fortune will come from — building a small business from scratch?
Or mastering real estate investment, accumulating it brick by brick?
Or perhaps leveraging your network to create mutually beneficial opportunities?
7 — Have you mapped out a complete plan for your life?
On the worldly level, have you projected your likely trajectory over the coming years?
On the metaphysical level, do you know your life pattern (格局), your cycles of rise and fall, and when your wealth fortune and romance fortune (桃花) are due to arrive?
On the practical level, have you established a healthy, fulfilling daily schedule for yourself?
8 — Have you deliberately engineered an environment that works in your favor?
Your home’s layout, orientation, materials, and decor — have you carefully adjusted these according to your destiny chart?
Have you filtered your network and social circles based on your favorable and clashing energies?
Have you even matched your career type to your destiny framework?
Have you truly arranged everything around you to work as much as possible in your favor?
Those are the essential questions — the ones that matter most.
I hope you’ll take some quiet time to work through each of them carefully before sharing your answers in the comments.
That’s life — some questions feel impossible to answer on your own, yet in the eyes of those who have walked further down the road, they’re not difficult at all.