Sometimes, even someone as emotionally steady as me gets pushed to the point of exasperation by readers who simply refuse to help themselves.
A certain type of female reader in particular — she’ll have read countless articles of mine, yet when it comes to actual decisions in real life, she makes an absolute mess of things. And she can’t handle adversity in the slightest.
By the time her entire life has completely collapsed, she comes rushing to book a session with me, desperate to find her path to recovery through a destiny reading.
Every time I encounter this kind of woman, I can’t help but say: if only you had consulted me earlier, things would never have fallen this far.
Now look at where we are — you’ve taken a perfectly good hand of cards and played them into ruins, and only then do you want me to help sort through the wreckage of your career, your relationships, your entire life, all in a very short window of time.
Why put yourself through unnecessary suffering?
When I say this, I usually get a sheepish smile in response. Anyone in my position would feel that frustration of watching someone squander their potential.
What’s more, this type of woman tends to share a common trait: she’s easily thrown into panic.
What I mean is — she can spiral into massive emotional turmoil over the most trivial things, whether at work or in relationships. The moment something slips slightly out of control, she has a full-blown reactive episode.
And she won’t stop to think about rational solutions. She follows pure instinct, which only makes things worse. The more she scrambles, the deeper into chaos she goes.
She’s like a fish caught in a net — if she’d only stayed calm at the start, she could have slipped free. Instead, through frantic and foolish thrashing, she wraps herself deeper and deeper in the mesh.
So tonight, I — Master Chi — am taking this moment before the new year to distill a few of the most important life truths for women.
Just three points. None are complicated, but all carry extraordinary value. Read them carefully, take them seriously — they can spare you from a great many detours in life.
1 — The heart of romance is not waiting, but self-improvement and careful selection.
The favorite pastime of foolish women is to sit back and hope that a good match will magically appear one day, sweep them off their feet, and grow into something lasting.
What they don’t realize is that any relationship that arrives through passive waiting is almost always of inferior quality — and rarely worth committing to in marriage.
I often tell the women who come to me for destiny readings directly: stop being lazy, stop being foolish, and certainly stop devaluing yourself. Follow my guidance — actively raise your income, grow your assets, improve your appearance, and elevate your social circle.
When the time is right, quality men will naturally come forward on their own. And when they do, don’t lose your head. Take your time, and carefully select from among them the one who truly has good character, genuine capability, and the makings of a lasting partner.
Don’t resist this approach — follow this process and it works every single time, without fail.
2 — The heart of life is not grinding harder, but seeing the road ahead clearly and choosing wisely.
Some women come to me for a life pattern (格局) reading and pour out their frustrations: “I’ve worked so hard for so many years — why is my career going nowhere? Why is there no hope in sight for my wealth fortune?”
I answer them just as directly: that’s entirely normal — because you’ve almost certainly been walking a path that doesn’t suit your destiny. No matter how hard you work on the wrong road, you’ll only ever earn a meager paycheck.
But if you walk the path that is truly yours, yes, you’ll still encounter obstacles — but you’ll also see real progress, genuine growth, and bit by bit, meaningful returns.
Think of it this way: why have you drilled hundreds of meters and still found no water? Because you’re drilling in the wrong spot. Find the right location, drill just ten meters, and water will burst forth immediately.
From a practical standpoint, it’s not just men who fear entering the wrong field — women do too. Some people are built for business. Others are meant to climb a professional ladder. Still others are best suited to cultivate a personal niche and eventually reap the rewards of deep, compounded effort.
But if you still don’t know, to this day, which path your destiny chart calls you to walk — how could you possibly be heading in the right direction?
3 — The heart of happiness is not effort alone, but building real strength and gaining genuine power.
I’m firmly against female readers spending their days consuming celebrity gossip, variety shows, romance dramas, and palace intrigue series. I’ll say it plainly — the mainstream palace intrigue dramas flooding the market today are, at their core, juvenile and shockingly naive.
Because if you look at genuine history, anywhere in the world, so-called political maneuvering and scheming have played only a very minor role in real outcomes. True power has always come down to military force, financial wealth, and intellectual capability.
So when I give destiny readings, I often add this reminder: don’t fantasize about some clever trick that achieves great things with minimal effort. That’s all nonsense.
Just walk steadily along the path I’ve mapped out for you, and bit by bit, in very real and concrete ways, build up your earning capacity, your network, your physical presence, and the quality of your thinking.
You’ll naturally find that your quality of life becomes more and more comfortable — and that you have less and less patience for the petty, low-level power games that once consumed you.
Let me share one more truth with full responsibility: the most convoluted, exhausting, and entangled human struggles tend to erupt at the bottom rungs of society, because resources there are so scarce that people feel compelled to claw things away from each other.
By contrast, the higher you rise — while competition certainly exists — the more it tends to be conducted with openness, generosity, and a certain dignity. Because rather than fighting to the death, people at that level would rather build together, grow together, and benefit one another.
That’s a thought worth sitting with tonight.